hopeless

my heart breaks into many pieces when i found out what happened to someone very dear to me.
i'm almost tearing when L msn-ed me.
she is head over heels in love with a man since 5 years ago.
over a guy who can't commit, cheats & is a bankrupt.
why is she pinning so much hope on a jerk?
he can't provide her anything, be it in terms of security or love.
furthermore, he has a cheating heart!
he became a bankrupt when his business failed in 2004.
it is only today that she found out.
L insists on staying by him.

am i being senseless & heartless?
i wanted to slap her & make her come to her senses.
obviously, she is madly in love with a selfish man.
she discovered the presence of another gf on last sun when she looked at his mobile phone.
some of her friends already knew of this girl since 2 years back & they didn't tell L because they thought it was just a fling.
she went to confront her bf yesterday after having too much drinks.
he admitted he has a 2nd gf.
he claimed she threw herself at him & he even slapped her to make her back off.
but she still clings on to him.
he doesn't meet her all the time, only occassionally.
he invests most of his time with L & not with the 2nd gf.
all the while, he thought he can't commit & love someone.
so he tried to fool around and wanna know if he really don't love L.
he said he doesn't love the 2nd gf & he feels he is committed to L.
what the heck?! excuses!
he is 2-timing worm!
how could all these crap be happening to L?
it really make no sense.
L wanted to call the 2nd gf & this jerk is fine with it.
he told L to go ahead & let the 2nd gf know of their status since this 2nd gf didn't want to leave him.
no matter how he tried to tell this 2nd gf, she still clings to him.
it is really a wholeload of bullsh*t!
i'm feeling so pissed now that i can't think & type properly.